Pre-marital

Pre-marital Counselling

What is Pre-marital Counselling?

Pre-marital counselling is a type of treatment that assists engaged couples in preparing for marriage. It allows couples to discuss and address any worries or issues they may have before tying the knot.

A therapist or counsellor will lead discussions on a range of themes during pre-marital counselling, including

  • Communication: How to communicate effectively with one another, particularly during times of conflict.
  • Understanding each other’s expectations and desires for the marriage, including financial, parental, and domestic obligations.
  • Understanding one another’s family backgrounds, including family customs, values, and relationships.
  • Problem-solving: Recognizing potential obstacles and learning effective problem-solving techniques to overcome them.
  • Discussing sexual expectations and preferences, as well as learning how to manage sexual intimacy in a healthy and gratifying manner.

The purpose of pre-marital counselling is to assist couples in laying a solid foundation for their marriage by addressing anticipated issues and enhancing communication and problem-solving skills. It’s also a chance for couples to get to know one another better, build trust, and gain a better understanding of the commitment they’re making to one another. Get a free consultation today.

Benefits of seeking counselling before marriage

The benefits of seeking pre-marital counselling before marriage include:

  • Pre-marital counselling assists couples in learning better communication skills and identifying communication impediments.
  • Couples can learn to efficiently handle conflicts by addressing potential issue areas before to marriage.
  • Pre-marital counselling assists couples in clarifying their marriage expectations and identifying areas of compatibility.
  • Pre-marital counselling assists couples in laying a solid foundation for their relationship by addressing critical issues and establishing coping skills.
  • According to research, couples who participate in pre-marital counselling report higher levels of marital satisfaction.
  • Pre-marital therapy has been found in studies to reduce the likelihood of divorce and lead to a more effective and satisfying marriage.
  • Pre-marital counselling can help couples increase their sexual closeness and deepen their emotional bond.
  • Pre-marital counselling offers couples a secure area to discuss and clarify their shared values and views.

How to know if I and my partner need pre-marital counselling?

There are several signs that can indicate a need for pre-marital counselling, including:

  • Difficulty communicating: If you and your partner have trouble speaking effectively, pre-marital counselling might help you improve your communication skills.
  • Values or belief discrepancies: If you and your partner have values or views that differ, pre-marital counselling can help you understand and resolve these differences.
  • Unresolved problems: If you and your partner have unresolved difficulties, pre-marital counselling can help you identify effective strategies to settle them.
  • Pre-marital counselling can help you clarify and align your expectations if you and your partner have different expectations for your marriage.
  • Lack of preparation: If you feel unprepared for the rigours of marriage, pre-marital counselling can help you develop the skills and knowledge you need to navigate marriage successfully.
  • Pre-marital counselling might help you confront and avoid troubles in your own relationship if you come from a family with a history of divorce or other relationship problems.
  • Unresolved prior difficulties: If you or your partner have unresolved emotional or psychological issues, pre-marital counselling can help you work through these issues and prepare for a successful marriage.

Pre-marital counselling can strengthen your relationship and prepare you for a successful marriage if any of these signs apply to you and your partner. Get a free consultation today.

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FAQ's About Pre-Martial Counselling

The goal of pre-marital counselling is to assist engaged couples in preparing for marriage by addressing any potential obstacles, increasing communication and problem-solving skills, and laying a solid foundation for their relationship.

Pre-marital counselling can benefit any engaged couple who wants to prepare for marriage and build a strong foundation for their relationship.

Pre-marital therapy duration can vary based on the couple’s requirements and goals. Some couples may require only a few sessions, while others may require several. Pre-marital counselling typically lasts 5 to 12 sessions.

Pre-marital therapy cannot ensure that a marriage will not result in divorce, but it can assist couples in laying a strong foundation and addressing possible issues before they become major issues. This can improve the odds of a happy and long-lasting marriage.

Communication, expectations, family dynamics, problem-solving, and sexual intimacy are all prominent subjects handled in pre-marital therapy.

The cost of pre-marital counselling can vary depending on the therapist’s fees and location. On average, the cost can range from $75 to $200 per session.

Even if a couple already has a solid relationship, pre-marital counselling might be beneficial. It allows couples to further deepen their bond and handle any possible obstacles before they become significant issues.

These are some of the most frequently asked pre-marital counselling questions. If you have any further questions, we recommend scheduling a free session with one of our certified therapists who specialises in pre-marital counselling.

My Partner is not serious about marriage, Can Counselling help with this?

Yes, pre-marital counselling might be beneficial if your partner is not committed to marriage. Pre-marital counselling allows both partners to express their feelings, fears, and expectations for the relationship and future marriage openly. This can assist in identifying and addressing any underlying issues that may be making your partner less serious about marriage.

Counselling can also offer you and your partner with a secure and neutral space to have honest and open conversations about your future together. This can help you both acquire a better understanding of one other’s points of view and work through any issues in your relationship.

Ultimately, the goal of pre-marital counselling is to build a strong foundation for your marriage and ensure that both partners are fully committed and prepared for the challenges and joys of married life. Get a free consultation today.

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Can Pre-marital Counselling Break My Relationship?

Pre-marital therapy does not have to end a relationship, but it can bring to light certain underlying concerns that must be addressed. This may result in uncomfortable conversations or conflicts, but it is also an opportunity to enhance your relationship and ensure that both parties are on the same page in terms of their marriage goals and expectations.

In many cases, pre-marital counselling can actually improve the relationship by helping partners work through any issues or conflicts that may arise in the future. It provides a safe and neutral space for partners to communicate openly and honestly, and to work through any differences or challenges in the relationship.

That being said, if a relationship is already in a precarious state, pre-marital counselling may bring these issues to the forefront, which could result in a breakdown of the relationship. However, this is not always the case, and many couples find that pre-marital counselling helps them to strengthen and improve their relationship.

In any case, the decision to participate in pre-marital counselling should be made after careful consideration and with a commitment to working together to build a strong foundation for your marriage. Get a free consultation today.

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